What repeats in your family is not a coincidence
60 family patterns, one page each: how it shows up in your life, where it comes from, what to do and what to say. Plus the genogram, to draw your own family tree. Today $19 instead of $47.
This is what the cards look like inside
Ideal for you if…
If the same thing keeps repeating
You change partner, job or city, and a few months later the same story turns up with a different face.
If you carry something that isn't yours
You carry a sadness, a guilt or a fear that doesn't match the life you've actually had.
If there are forbidden subjects at home
Someone nobody names, a death that was hushed, a secret everybody knows and nobody says.
If you've already tried to work it out alone
You've read, you've searched, you even went to a workshop, and you still don't know where to start.
From half an hour of searching to knowing in a minute
Without the cards
- ✕You search online and everyone tells you something different.
- ✕You go to a workshop, you cry a lot, and a week later you're the same.
- ✕You know something repeats, but not what or where it comes from.
- ✕They tell you to let go, and nobody explains how letting go works.
With the cards
- ✓You look up what's happening to you and go straight to your card.
- ✓You draw your tree and see with your own eyes what repeats.
- ✓You know what to say, to whom, and when.
- ✓Eight weeks, one exercise at a time, no rushing.
This is exactly what you get
- ✓60 family pattern cards, one per page
- ✓How it shows up in your life, where it comes from and what to do
- ✓A “when it isn't this” section on every single card
- ✓The genogram step by step, 10 steps with diagrams
- ✓The sentences that order it, grouped by who you say them to
- ✓Index by situation: 60 cases with their card
- ✓Eight-week workbook with space to write
- ✓All PDF, for your phone or to print
And it doesn't stop there… there's more!
Four bonuses included today at no cost
Index by situation
60 concrete situations with the card that belongs to each one.
The three orders
Why all of this works, explained without the waffle.
Eight-week workbook
One exercise a week, with its sentence and its space.
Twelve cards
To cut out and put where you'll come across them daily.
Choose the pack that fits you
Complete Pack
🎁 ALL BONUSES INCLUDED 🎁
⚡ 4 EXTRA BONUSES
- ✓The 60 pattern cards
- ✓The genogram step by step
- ✓The sentences that order it
- ✓Bonus 1: Index by situation
- ✓Bonus 2: The three orders
- ✓Bonus 3: Eight-week workbook
- ✓Bonus 4: Twelve cards to cut out
- ✓Instant download, yours forever
Basic Pack
- ✓The 60 pattern cards
- ✕The genogram step by step
- ✕The sentences that order it
- ✕Bonus 1: Index by situation
- ✕Bonus 2: The three orders
- ✕Bonus 3: Eight-week workbook
- ✕Bonus 4: Twelve cards to cut out
- ✓Instant download, yours forever
Unconditional 7-day guarantee
If you open it and it isn't what you expected, you write to us and we refund you. No questions, nothing to justify.
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You pay
Secure checkout. Card, Apple Pay or PayPal.
It lands in your inbox
The moment the payment clears, no waiting.
You open it or print it
On your phone, on your computer, or printed at home.
Questions people ask
Do I need to know anything about family constellations?
No. It's written for someone who has never heard the term. There's no jargon: the patterns are told the way people tell them.
Does this replace going to therapy?
No, and we say so inside the material. This is personal work. Every card has a section on when what you're carrying needs a professional and not an exercise.
Do I have to do it with someone else?
No. It's all designed to be done on your own, at home. Only the step of asking your family means talking to someone, and we explain how to do that without starting a fight.
How does it reach me and how long do I keep it?
By email, the moment you pay. They're PDF files you download and they're yours forever. No subscription and no platform that expires.
Can I print it?
Yes, everything is Letter size. Most people print only the cards that are theirs and the workbook.
What if it isn't for me?
You have 7 days. You write, we ask nothing, and you get your money back in full.
Add How to Ask Your Family
To fill in your tree you're going to have to ask about the ones who are missing. This guide tells you how, without starting a fight.
- ✓The 12 questions that open up the story
- ✓Who to ask first and who never to ask
- ✓What to do if they answer with half-truths
- ✓How to ask about a death or a secret